tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17088370208558236752024-03-05T06:35:02.511-06:00Heart of a MotherThe loveliest masterpiece of the heart of God is the heart of a mother. ~ St. Therese of LisieuxUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger512125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1708837020855823675.post-77900285725645800162019-08-04T15:58:00.002-05:002019-08-04T15:58:33.716-05:00New Website!<h2>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;">And also, please pray for me and all the opportunities God is putting in my path, that I will follow His will to serve others while keeping my family as my first priority. Thank you, dear friends.</span></div>
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homeschooling. <b>Books and materials used to be my primary focus, but thanks to
Sarah, my children are.</b> And sharing big ideas and growing together is much more
important than the curriculum I choose. There has been so much freedom in
knowing I just need to do my best to pick something that will work and not
worry that I’m choosing just the perfect materials. As Sarah says, “How you
teach is just as important as what you teach,” and I have taken that to heart.</li>
<li>This year, I think<b> I want to move from thinking about
homeschooling towards thinking about home education</b>. Often when I use the word
school, all of the elements of my traditional education in a brick and mortar
school come to mind. I forget, but Sarah reminds me, that I have the freedom to
educate my children as I prayerfully discern is best. I do not have to stick to
a curriculum or schedule that mirrors “away-schooling,” as my children used to
call not homeschooling.</li>
<li><b>Margin is absolutely essential to me</b>. When I do not have
white space, I hurry through our days and that usually results in me barking or
yelling at my kids. As a recovering perfectionist, my husband has been the one
over the years to remind me to stop at the end of a day and leave some things
undone. Rest is essential. <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2017_01_15_archive.html" target="_blank">Time to care for me</a>, my spiritual, social, emotional,
physical, and emotional needs, must be a part of our days.</li>
<li>I am also a recovering multi-tasker. This is one of the
parts of the book I argued with when I first read it, and I am beginning to
recognize that this is a journey. Of course <b>there are times when we have no
choice but to multi-task, but in the majority of moments I think I do have a
choice</b>. Somehow I need to do better, and part of that is going to require being
intentional about setting aside my smartphone.</li>
<li>“Do less. Do it well.” This is how Part Two closes, and it takes me back to my days of recovery from burnout three summers ago. The reality of that collapse was that I was <strike>doing</strike> trying to do too much, as is my tendency. Thinking upon this now, when I have found such peace in simplifying in previous years,<b> I am determined to avoid the creep of more, more, more. </b>Since<a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2017_01_01_archive.html" target="_blank"> our last academic year</a> required that I focus only on core subjects, I am very tempted to add in all the things we missed last year, rather than select a few.</li>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I had planned to post this review after I finish all of my </span><i style="font-family: inherit;"><a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2017/06/this-book.html" target="_blank">Teaching from Rest</a></i><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2017/06/this-book.html" target="_blank"> book studies</a> for the
summer next week, but the price on this resource is going up this Wednesday (June 21, 2017)! I
did not want you to miss out, my friends. I am not being compensated in any way
for this review; I just really want to share how much I love this kit!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Pam Barnhill, a fellow homeschooling mama, has created a
remarkable resource to bridge the gap between the theoretical homeschool and
the day to day reality. Her <a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank"><i>Plan Your Year</i> Kit</a> is a true gem, and if you are hoping to be more intentional about planning your
homeschool year, every page is worth every penny!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The current price is $24, and this includes the Planning
Guide in PDF format, (currently) 74 beautiful downloadable forms for planning,
two inspiring audio workshops, an invaluable Facebook group, and lifetime
updates to the product. Pam updates calendars every season and adds custom forms
requested by users.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">She has also just added a 14-page student planner, <i>The Independent Student</i>, in 4 different
graphic formats with an audio workshop, specifically for this new planner,
which is included in the kit for free until July 2! You can download <a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">free sample pages</a> from all of the above now to see if this product is for you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I have found that <i><a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">PlanYour Year</a></i> is the logical next step after reading <i><a href="http://amzn.to/2rKWnEx" target="_blank">Teaching from Rest</a></i>. Most of my readers and friends know how much I
love Sarah Mackenzie’s wise words. She regularly challenges us all to imagine
our vision for our homeschools and focus on our priorities. Pam’s guide insists
that the first thing one should do before buying materials or making a schedule
is to write down on paper (or you can even type into Pam’s forms and save a
pretty typed version) our overall vision and our goals for each child.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Once I have read about how I should “bring [my] basket,” “simplify
the curriculum,” and “plan to breathe,” personally, I will completely forget
about those ideas once I walk into the homeschool conference and start talking
planning with my homeschooling friends. Even the subtitle of Pam’s guide, <i><a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">Plan Your Year: Homeschool Planning forPurpose and Peace</a>, </i>reflects the subtitle of Sarah’s book, <i><a href="http://amzn.to/2rKWnEx" target="_blank">Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler’s Guideto Unshakable Peace</a>. </i>(Yes, I think they did that on purpose; they’re pretty
good friends, if you hadn’t guessed!)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And another day I’ll post a review of <a href="http://myschoolyear.com/">MySchoolYear.com</a>,
a homeschool record-keeping program, which has totally improved the day to day
execution of the plans I make with <i><a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">Plan Your Year</a></i>! My process includes: Step One, read <i><a href="http://amzn.to/2rKWnEx" target="_blank">Teaching from Rest</a></i>;
Step Two,<a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank"> <i>Plan Your Year</i></a>; and Step Three, use <a href="https://www.myschoolyear.com/" target="_blank">MySchoolYear.com </a>to make it
happen! (3 fantastic resources created by fellow Catholic homeschooling
families!)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">As I said in my testimonial above, there are probably
thousands of free homeschool planning forms on the internet today. I have used
many of them, but none of them come with a how-to guide to filling them out. Pam’s
planning guide walks you through the ten steps to planning your year: Vision,
Goals, Course of Study, Scheduling Options, Plan a Week, Purchase Resources,
Booklists, Organization, Records, and the Daily Plan. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The forms themselves are clean and pretty, and I love that
you can type right into the spaces to make your own personalized planning
pages. There are so many different forms for so many different situations,
including everything you would expect for homeschooling planning and a selection
of specialized forms for family chores, morning time, loop scheduling,
transcript planning, reading logs, etc. But the guide also includes links to
resources and action steps to be sure you’re putting your family’s priorities
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">If you are like me and get overwhelmed by the details such
that you forget the big picture, <i><a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">PlanYour Year </a></i>is for you. I used to start with a long list of the things I wanted
to teach the following year without stopping to consider why to teach those
things and which were realistic for my family. I would see the shiny new books
and the bargains at the used book sales and decide to jump in without
evaluating our needs. Going through Pam’s careful planning steps ensures that I
walk in to each conference or sale with a list of what my priorities are and
which books I think will best fit those principles.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I admit that I am the type of homeschooler who cannot use
somebody else’s plans. When I look at sample pages to purchase daily lesson
plans from whatever provider, I would make so many changes that I see them as a
waste of my money. You may not be that way. Perhaps you love the structure of
daily plans and maybe are enrolled in a full time or hybrid homeschool program.
<i><a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">Plan Your Year</a></i> can work for all of
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">This kit really is personalized. You decide the goals and
print out the forms you want. You make a list of resources you need and when
you need them. You plug in the activities and lessons on the calendar if you
want. You map out the best approach to each day based on the needs of your
family. And since an individualized education is one of the reasons many of us
homeschool, this is the tool to make those wishes come true!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Finally, I cannot say enough good things about the wonderful
ladies in the <i>Plan Your Year </i>Homeschool Planning Facebook group. Pam’s
assistant, Dawn, guides the group in regular discussion during key planning
times, and Pam pops in to share relevant wisdom, opportunities, and resources,
including a file section with some of those customized forms I mentioned above.
If you have a question or need someone to look over your plans, the mamas there
are ready to help you make a plan that works for you!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Whether you are an orderly thinker who loves filling out forms, or tend towards being a scatterbrain and need someone to help you focus step by step through planning, I think <i><a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">Plan Your Year</a> </i>will work for you! I have just begun to print forms and dive into the process this year, but I am looking forward to pulling together all the thoughts swimming around in my head about next year into a definite plan.</div>
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<b><i>Let me know in the comments here if you decide to join me and tell me what you think about </i><a href="https://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-planning-kit/" target="_blank">Plan Your Year</a><i>. Maybe we can even meet here or on Facebook to share our plans as we develop them!</i></b></div>
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This is my third summer to read <i><a href="http://amzn.to/2sPiwkY" target="_blank">Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler’s Guide to Unshakable Peace</a> </i>(<span style="font-size: x-small;">affiliate link - I might get a few pennies from your purchase using this link</span>)<i>.</i>
Each time I ponder this book, I find new wisdom and a unique focus to guide me in planning for our next homeschool year. Over the
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voices in my head that discourage me and cause me to question my daily
decisions in mothering and homeschooling need to be replaced</b>. In fact, the
entire first section of this book reminded me that much of teaching from rest is to simply change my attitude. That is easier said
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constantly remind myself that God is present and watching. As Sarah says, “<b>God
showing up is not the miracle.</b>” I am sure that if I can remember to let God be
God, His still, quiet voice will guide me, especially as I spend precious time praying with His Word in the Scriptures, one of my favorite ways to pray.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Thanks to the wise words of dear friends, I am
also pondering anew how we can <b>find God in the true, the good, and the beautiful</b>.
I can find Him there, and I can lead my children to Him there. Surely, this is
the best way to capture the hearts of my children.</span></li>
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child” and focus on “loving him through” whatever is to be done. I have long
believed that my highest priority is my relationship with each of my children,
and I now renew my desire to live that more intentionally. <b>To be faithful, to
share joy, to be diligent…these all take intentional living.</b></span></li>
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to learn better to <b>accept the existing conditions the Lord has allowed</b> and acknowledge my own weaknesses. He created each of my children, my husband, and me to be exactly the way He wants us to be. All I can offer is my best, trust that God will fill the gaps, and hope that Mary will, as one of my favorite prayers says, "supply in [her] all-wise motherhood for my poor human deficiencies."</span></li>
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<b><i>These are my thoughts! <a href="https://amongstlovelythings.com/tfr-club-1/" target="_blank">Here are Sarah's thoughts</a> in a recording of her excellent online book club. I am sure, if you have read Part One of Teaching from Rest, you have other thoughts to ponder. Please share
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I went on a 20-hour womens’ retreat last month led by the
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chance to go on one of their retreats in Ann Arbor or near Austin, go!) There
were many things about those fleeting hours that I have brought home to ponder,
and this one won’t let go, especially given the division and fear that is crushing our world today.<o:p></o:p></div>
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At one point the Sisters showed us the first part of this wonderful new movie, <i><a href="https://jp2film.com/" target="_blank">Liberating a Continent: John Paul II</a></i>. One portion of the film that struck me was after Karol Wojtyla became Pope John Paul II, and he went back to visit communist Poland, his
homeland. The government did everything they could to discourage people from
going to see him, fabricating and spreading stories about damaged roadways,
rampant disease, and filth. But despite these lies and because of the
inability for the faithful to ever speak in public about their faith, they went to
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I forget who, but one of the historians or clergy who were
interviewed for the film explained that those gatherings were a catalyst for change.
You see, these people did not know what their neighbors believed. There was no
free speech, but by seeing one another gather together to pray with the pope,
they realized how many fellow citizens were desperate for change. By physically
being there, a new unity came about which inspired the strikes and other
actions that would one day lead to the fall of communism in that country and
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In our culture, it isn’t often difficult to know what another
person thinks. We share our opinions freely, as we should in a country of free
speech. Our Facebook feeds and our lunchroom discussions are as often about
politics and religion as pop stars and TV shows, since we seem to have outgrown
the previously taboo nature of these topics. But when we encounter another
person who has similar beliefs and is living in a similar situation as we are,
our faith is indeed boosted, and we feel we are a part of something bigger than
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You have probably experienced this at a concert, conference,
retreat, or similar large gathering. Wow. Look at all the people who love what
I love. I felt that way on retreat this weekend as I met women from all over
the State of Texas who were busy with jobs and families but needed 20 hours to
focus on God, reflect on their vocation, and pray together for our families and
our world.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Especially as
mothers, especially as homeschooling mothers, we can feel extremely isolated
and wonder if anyone else has similar struggles. But as soon as we head to the
park and start chatting about toddler meltdowns and tween-age dawdling, our
spirits are lifted, and we know we can persevere. When we encounter another soul thirsting and questing for God, we feel an instant connection and realize we are not alone.</div>
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In my own life, I recognize the need to find like-minded
friends with similar vocations. All they have to do is be there, to send a text
or to meet me for coffee, and I find renewal. It does not matter how we spend our time, whether we delve deep in conversation or merely chat with constant interruptions as our children <strike>play</strike> squabble. The Lord created us, women
especially, for relationship with one another, and making the effort to show up
not only feeds the souls of those around us, but also comforts our own hearts
by reminding us that constantly striving for holiness is indeed a noble thing
and not an impossible quest.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Perhaps there are obstacles to finding these IRL (in real
life) gatherings. It is then that social media can fill a void with forums and
blogs, Facebook and Instagram. A simple post can connect us to strangers and
remind us Whom we serve, taking us out of our self-centered thoughts. We can
find our tribe, and we can be reminded to fight the good fight and keep the
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<b>So my challenge to you is to reach out today. </b>Be present to
someone IRL or online, and stand side by side, appreciating your common ground
and respecting your differences, because God loves us all when we are united in
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This book. When it was first published as an ebook in 2014, I was in a fog. My youngest was just about a year old, I was struggling to keep a home business alive, and I sincerely thought it should not be taking me so long to bounce back to orderliness and productivity after another new baby. I was homeschooling a 5th and a 3rd grader and chasing a three year old amidst it all. Rest and peace were elusive.</div>
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<i><a href="http://amzn.to/2rKWnEx" target="_blank">Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler's Guide to Unshakable Peace</a></i> (affiliate link) came out on <a href="https://amongstlovelythings.com/blog/" target="_blank">Sarah's blog</a> and sounded like it would be a great help to my weariness. I had been reading and enjoying Sarah's perspective for a while, but reading a post here and there while nursing was hardly enough to cobble together a coherent thought to remember and apply tomorrow.</div>
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So I devoured her e-book. I printed it and put it in a binder and promptly read through it. I enjoyed her focus on trusting God and respecting who He created my children, and me, to be. But as she began to suggest practical ways to implement surrendering our homeschooling to the Lord, I fell back on my old perfectionist, worrying ways. And then, I promptly called a friend, one who had also read it, and complained, declaring the impossibility of the ideas within it. It just did not make sense!</div>
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How could I allow my children not to finish their math book by the end of the year? How could I simplify my curriculum when we hadn't even started Latin!? And how on earth could I schedule our days to allow for seemingly idle time? 24 hours are just not enough! (If you are laughing with me now, you have been there!)</div>
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But when the Lord wants to heal you, He doesn't give up. The following school year Sarah's words kept coming back to me. I argued with myself regarding my objections to her wisdom. Yet, even in Confession, Father was telling me to stop looking at prayer as something to check off of my to do list and just to "rest in the Lord." So, little by little, stubborn me began to surrender more and more to Christ. I brought my "couple loaves of bread and a few fish" to God and sat still long enough to let Him work in our homeschool. The results were grace and peace beyond my imaginings.</div>
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The following summer, I picked up the book again, in print form and remarkably edited to clarify its message, and I devoured it with new eyes. Now I read it at least once a year, sometimes twice. Each time the Holy Spirit prompts me in new ways to realize that I am not "the be-all and end-all of whether the education [I am] offering [my] children is going to be as successful as [I] hope it is." God is, and I endeavor to "seek Him first."<br />
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I highly suggest every homeschooling mother, whether you are enrolled in a hybrid or home-based program or you cobble together your own lessons, read this book. There is wisdom here that comes directly from Scripture and other wonderful books and from the daily experiences of many. If you look to planning next year as an enormous chore that you are incapable of completing or have not fully finished your school year and are limping to the finish line, consider reading this book. (And it's good for those of you who school year round, too!)</div>
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<b><i>Would you like to join me to discuss this remarkable book over the next few weeks, as I study it again?</i></b> I'm hoping that for the next several Mondays I can manage to get a post up here with my thoughts on each section of the book, and we can try to chat here. I know some of you are joining me to study the book in other ways, but a few friends requested a non-local, non-Facebook place. Let's try it! If you're in, please comment below, so I know to plan to chat with you next Monday about Part One!</div>
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In our Catholic tradition, June is the month of the Two Hearts, the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Immaculate Heart of Mary. It seems a fitting time for me to offer this space at <i>Heart of a Mother</i> to the Heart of Our Blessed Mother.<br />
Many of my friends are, for lack of a better word, pestering me to write more here. In prayer and circumstances, I feel prompted to write more here. So, today especially, I am asking Mary, Our Mother to guide me to God's will for this ministry. Please join me with this beautiful prayer, intended to be a novena to Mary's Immaculate Heart, but certainly useful for any day. Pray with me for all of the intentions in all of our hearts this day.<br />
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<b>Thank you for your prayers and encouragement. Now...what should I write?! :)</b><br />
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<i>- said to a group of Catholic homeschooling mothers by a compassionate priest</i></div>
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There is nothing that has stuck with me more from our beautiful DFW Day of Grace for Catholic Homeschooling Mothers last month than this statement. I have circled it in my journal, pondered it in my heart, and wow. This seriously has changed my paradigm.</div>
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For years, I have heard fellow homeschooling mothers (but everyone probably experiences burn-out) discuss how to avoid burn-out and keep going. We talk about doing all the things we know we should do to remain at peace in our daily lives, all the many, many things. And I am not saying that burn-out is completely unavoidable, but I now think it is not the end-of-the-line desperation I once saw. It is instead an opportunity to grow in holiness.</div>
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The previous two Lents I have been blessed by Elizabeth Foss's <a href="http://www.elizabethfoss.com/restore/" target="_blank">Restore workshops</a>, an online course for women experiencing burn-out. She is not running the course this year, but her guidance of spiritual and practical help for making ourselves whole again has been a gift to hundreds of women, proving that burn-out is a reality and a concern for many and that we can heal from it with God's grace. A quick Google search on Catholic homeschooling burnout resulted in over 371,000 results; it's clearly not rare.</div>
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Father's focus was not, as I expected, how to avoid burn-out and stress and not fall apart. It was to instruct us to choose to respond differently when we are tired and weary, to choose to respond rather than react. He taught us that God's grace is the help we need to see the stress as a symptom of the sickness of sin and to seek healing by making changes, by stepping back and viewing our stress through God's eyes. This can only be done, he reminded us, when we have a solid friendship with God.</div>
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I think that partly <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2017/01/a-new-resolution.html" target="_blank">inspired my resolution </a>to spend time in Scripture daily, in order to grow in relationship with God. So that is key. But my new paradigm is that instead of causing myself more stress by thinking of all the things I should be doing to avoid burn-out (i.e. eating well, sleeping well, exercising, planning meaningful lessons, keeping up with housework, etc.), I am looking at my stress as a reminder to take a deep breath and deflect the negativity, turning to God in that moment, which is much more frequently, and that's definitely a good thing.</div>
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Maybe all of that only makes sense in my head, but it seemed worth putting words down to try to communicate it to my friends, even though never of you ever face burn-out or stress. lol!</div>
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<b>What choices do you make when you face stress that help you see it differently, through the lens of God's grace?</b></div>
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Just a short bit ago (yesterday perhaps) I was lamenting my
prayer life. I just do not take the time I know I need to spend with my Lord in
order to receive enough graces to get through each day. I am weary. This road
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A couple of weeks ago, the Lord reminded me that, “In the
beginning was the Word.” And I realized then that I need to immerse myself in
Scripture. I feel, like Elizabeth Foss so eloquently articulated for me, that
the dryness of my prayer and the longing of my heart can be healed with God’s
Word. She shares:<o:p></o:p></div>
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much time wondering what God thinks as we do scrolling through social media
looking for ideas, or opinions, or arguments. (After this week, I’m thoroughly
convinced people go looking for arguments.) <b>We have time.</b> We can read what God
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Her words feel like a 2x4 to the head from God! Dummy! Pick
up a Bible. It doesn’t matter where you begin; just begin with Me. And, so I
do. At the beginning. Where the Word Became Flesh. (John 1)<o:p></o:p></div>
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Have you seen lately the treasures you can find there, friends? Oh
my! The light we all need today in this broken world. The example of John who
testified to the light and yet was not well received. And, the flesh, the man, the
Eucharist, our greatest treasure. That’s only verses 1-13! John then writes:<o:p></o:p></div>
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And we have seen his glory, the glory
of a father’s only son, full of grace and truth. (John 1:14b)</blockquote>
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I haven’t told you yet that the word on my heart for this year
is “glory,” and I will soon share with you the incredible graces I witnessed
and received at our Mother’s Day of Grace this past Saturday. I am in awe at
the careful love God has for me in half a verse of His Word!<o:p></o:p></div>
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My friends, He has words just for you, too. Words that will
stir your heart, that will reach you wherever you are on this road to Him, whether you are filled with peace or struggling with doubt. The
Bible is God’s gift to His children, and waiting inside are messages for each of
us.<o:p></o:p></div>
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If you do not pick up your Bible daily, please join me in a
new resolution. It may be the end of January, but let’s push away the burnout blues of February and prepare ourselves for the season of Lent to come
by seeping ourselves in Scripture. Spending just a few minutes a day with the
Word of God will surely bring great fruits for each of us and our families.</div>
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Will you join me?<o:p></o:p></div>
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I don’t have time. That thought runs through my head on a
daily basis about many things. Fun outings. Kid meltdowns. Personal interests.
Whenever I think of the things that I want to do and don’t get to do, that’s my
internal response. The voice that whines in my head.<o:p></o:p></div>
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What thing would you like to do that you don’t have time to
do? For you? Maybe you like to sew or read or paint or craft. Think especially
of those things you want to do that do not have a tangible benefit for your
family but are a way for you to create something.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I have a friend who makes fun t-shirts for her
family to wear. I have another friend who has a direct sales business that she
loves, and the income helps her family get through each month. That's fantastic. In this day of
Etsy and blogging, mamas can turn almost anything in a money-making endeavor or
turn their creative passions into tangible items that benefit their families.
But, while that’s admirable, the rest of us who can’t handle the stress or
logistics of self-employment (trust me, I tried a few times) and whose passions
can’t directly benefit our children and husband still do desire things that bring
us joy and feed our souls.</div>
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So, that thing? The one that you look forward to and love
doing but takes time away from your homemaking, mothering, homeschooling, paid
position, wife duties, etc? Do it anyway. Seriously. You have my permission.
You don’t need it, but you have it.<o:p></o:p></div>
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As women, often we want to make lovely things, especially
in this fallen, broken world. I remember growing up, noticing that my mother
would sew and write and garden for fun. She enjoyed it. Sometimes it benefited
our family directly, but sometimes it was just something she wanted to do. And
it’s so difficult for me to follow her example.<o:p></o:p></div>
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But God made women as part of His creative genius. Beauty is
of God, and I’m not talking the perfect Pinterest-beauty. I’m talking the art
made with your heart. In my experience, when I do set aside that time, 15
minutes here and there or an hour or two once a week, my soul soars. I gain
peace and confidence that does directly benefit my family. Mamas, you know this
is true.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So, again, I give you permission, and I beg of you. Please,
this week, take some time to do that thing. I made myself sit down and write this, and I challenge you to go do something that brings you joy - and brings God glory - and come back and share what you did! Our world is a messy place, but if we find beauty and create beauty, our souls
will glorify God and His light will brighten our often dark and dismal world.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I bought this little decor item as a post-Christmas gift for myself as a reminder of what I did last year.<br />
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Last year, I said goodbye to my husband five times, each time knowing the stretch of time before I saw him again would be longer.<br />
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Last year, I said see-you-later to the dearest group of mom friends I have ever had, and fought little by little to make brand new mom friends.<br />
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I spent five months living in an apartment with my four kids and no husband, except for the couple of nights he visited before deploying.<br />
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I searched for a house, bought a house, moved into a house, and set up a house that my husband has never seen and will not see for several more months.<br />
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Last year, I survived my 17th wedding anniversary, Thanksgiving, my 40th birthday, Christmas, and New Year's Eve but missed my man every second.<br />
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Last year, I learned that fighting doubt and anxiety is exhausting, terrible work and that lowering expectations is a perfectly acceptable, but humbling, coping strategy.<br />
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I loved my children through a 2600+ mile road trip, attitude adjustments (before, during, and after), their own anxiety struggles, and plenty of too-big feelings they are ill-equipped to handle.<br />
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I found joy and peace in doing the one thing in front of me and putting one foot in front of the other each day, despite my longing to just stop time and stop being in charge of everything for a bit.<br />
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You see, I am strong. And I knew that. But I had no idea the kinds of tough emotions and stressful challenges I would face in 2016. I simply had no choice but to love my husband and my children and get through it somehow. I suppose I did have a choice, but no other option was okay with me. I might not have always done it with as much grace or love as I was capable of, but when I woke up on New Year's Day, I realized...<br />
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This year is the year my husband comes home.<br />
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This year is the year I cultivate my newfound strength into personal growth.<br />
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This year is the year that no matter how daunting the day, I know I can face whatever life hands me.<br />
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Because that's what we do, and there is no other acceptable path. Whether you deal with deployment, divorce, death, discord, disease, or something else, when life hands you adversity (and only then) God will reveal the hidden depth of the strength He planted deep in our souls.<br />
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5 days down, 360 to go! To God be the glory!<br />
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These are a few titles of posts I could have written over the past six months or so:<br />
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<li>One Federal Employee Changes Payroll Policy and I Cry</li>
<li>Having an Attorney for a Husband Comes in Handy</li>
<li>How to Begin Looking for a House in a Giant Geographic Area</li>
<li>When Life is so Insane You Don't Touch Your Bullet Journal until Thursday, 2 Weeks in a Row</li>
<li>Why People Who Upgrade Older Homes Should Actually Do It Right</li>
<li>Buying a House Without Your Husband (or 12 Steps through the Worst Anxiety of My Life)</li>
<li>The Epitome of Unconditional Support (or Who My Parents Are)</li>
<li>The Perils of Binge Watching Amazon Prime for Stress Relief</li>
<li>Hitting My Head Against a Wall When God Was in Control All Along</li>
<li>Surviving the Holidays by Lowering Expectations</li>
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But somehow those do not all seem to go with the focus of my audience here! So, I am planning to polish and publish a few drafts from the summer and then to continue, from time to time, to post about the joys and challenges of being a devoted wife and Catholic homeschooling mother.<br />
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Starting a Moms' Group? If you're not already a part of one, you really should start your own! Just to recap: <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/i-dont-have-blank-to-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">Here </a>is <b>why </b>you should start one.<span id="goog_2082508445"></span> <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/start-moms-group-3-easy-steps.html" target="_blank">Here </a>is <b>how </b>to start one<span id="goog_2082508446"></span>. <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/08/the-easiest-moms-group-youll-ever-lead.html" target="_blank">Here </a>are the <b>easiest topic</b> ideas. <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/08/inspiring-books-for-catholic-moms-group.html" target="_blank">Here </a>are some <b>inspiring books</b> to read and discuss.<br />
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But sometimes mothers really need some meat, more content to take home and chew on. In one city, I found that after leading a group of ladies for a couple of years, we had covered all the basic topics. While repeating them would have been fantastic, we elected to dive into a deeper study. Group studies are a good way to get a new group going strong or to refresh a tired group. Here are the studies I have led or participated in with fellow moms over the years:<br />
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<li><a href="http://momnipotentstudy.com/" target="_blank"><i>Momnipotent: The Not-So-Perfect Woman's Guide to Catholic Motherhood </i>by Danielle Bean </a>--- The book is fantastic, and the DVD really adds a lot of practical experience from a diverse group of moms. We found the DVDs were a bit long for our two-hour sessions, so I often played only a segment of the video to give us more time to discuss the ideas. Our group chose not to use the journal, but I referred to it for conversation starters. All of the materials are well created, but we found it worked well for our group to pick and choose elements.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.catholicconference4moms.com/" target="_blank">Catholic Conference 4 Moms</a> --- This was a fantastic resource for our group last spring, and it's being offered for free one weekend this month! I signed up to host the Faces of Mercy Conference to purchase the rights to download the presentations. Then we watched one or two presentations each meeting. These are top notch speakers with excellent fodder for discussion! I highly recommend liking <a href="https://www.facebook.com/CatholicConference4Moms/?fref=ts" target="_blank">their Facebook page</a> to learn about future conferences.</li>
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<li><a href="http://endowgroups.org/" target="_blank">Endow Catholic Women Studies</a> --- Their study on John Paul II's Letter to Women is quite inspiring. If you need a very structured, carefully planned study group that focuses on Church documents, this is for you. They even have a feature on their website where you can find an existing group in your diocese.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.scotthahn.com/ignatius-study-bible/" target="_blank">Ignatius Catholic Bible Study Series by Scott Hahn & Curtis Mitch</a> --- One group of women wanted to delve into Scripture more, so we picked one of the paperback single-biblical-book volumes from this series. I think we took a semester to study the Letters of St. Paul to the Corinthians with the outstanding footnotes of these Catholic scholars.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.womenofgrace.com/en-us/study_programs/default.aspx#cat4" target="_blank">Women of Grace Study Program:<i> Full of Grace: Women and the Abundant Life</i> by Johnnette Benkovic</a> --- This was, by far, my favorite women's study I have ever led. The material provided is excellent, uplifting, and challenging. Yet, it was presented in such a way that the amount of advance preparation required to participate in each meeting was not overwhelming (similarly to <i>Momnipotent)</i>. </li>
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<li><a href="https://blessedisshe.net/" target="_blank">Blessed is She</a> lectio divina Bible studies --- This group of writers is amazing! Their main ministry is to publish daily Biblical reflections for fellow Catholic women, so sign up there for daily inspiration. But the authors there also have a few short Bible studies, such as <i><a href="https://blessedisshe.net/product/waiting-word-vows/" target="_blank">Waiting in the Word: Our Vows</a> </i>on marriage and recently released <a href="https://gumroad.com/l/NYaFc" target="_blank"><i>A Couple's Journey</i> </a>on fertility and family planning. These are short studies but are perfect for a small group to discuss with a focus on Scripture and Catholic teaching in a relatable way.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.emmausroad.org/Courageous-Series-C530.aspx" target="_blank">Courageous Series Bible Studies for Women by Stacy Mitch</a><span id="goog_2082508397"></span><span id="goog_2082508398"></span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/"></a> --- I believe there are four in this series, now: Love, Women, Virtue, and Generosity. These books do not require a separate study guide, as the questions with space to fill in your answers are already in the books. Again, these are a great way to study Scripture as a group, so you can discuss the passages, the study questions, and personal experiences.</li>
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This academic year, my goal includes working through these studies on my own as much as possible to evaluate them for future use.<br />
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<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lifegiving-Home-Creating-Belonging-Becoming/dp/1496403371" target="_blank">The Lifegiving Home</a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lifegiving-Home-Experience-12-Month-Journey/dp/1496405390" target="_blank">The Lifegiving Home Experience by Sally Clarkson</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.wellreadmom.com/" target="_blank">Well-Read Mom Book Club</a></li>
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And then, of course, there are other great studies at these trusted sites:</div>
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<li><a href="http://www.cssprogram.net/" target="_blank">Catholic Scripture Studies Program </a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.avemariapress.com/category/PM50/Small-Group-Resources/" target="_blank">Ave Maria Press Small Group Resources</a> </li>
<li><a href="http://www.wordonfire.org/study-programs/" target="_blank">Word on Fire Study Programs</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://www.augustineinstitute.org/formed/" target="_blank">Formed.org Faith Formation Resources</a></li>
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<b><i>If you have suggestions on others I should consider, please drop them in the combox below!</i></b><br />
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I had to suspend my blogging routine to get ready for our first day of school, but I am back! Many of my friends IRL ask me each year what materials we are using, so I thought I would post that information here for their benefit. If that is not your thing, just scroll on past this lengthy post!<br />
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<i>NOTE: I am too tired for links, but I will come back and insert links for all of the materials listed below soon!</i><br />
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This is our 10th official year of homeschooling. My oldest is beginning 8th grade. We started homeschooling her in Michigan where the cutoff date for school is September 30, and then we moved to Florida and then Texas where the cutoff dates are both August 31. Since she has a September birthday, we chose to have her do a supplemental 3rd grade year in order to be on par with her peers in extracurricular activities and when she heads to college. I went to college at age 17 and feel like that had some disadvantages to my moral compass. So, counting Kindergarten and her repeat of 3rd grade (although we did completely different material), this is our 10th year of homeschooling. Wow.<br />
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I feel like that should make me some sort of expert, but it doesn't. At all. So, if you are here to find all the answers, you won't find them here. That's above my pay grade. I just do the best I can to research every single possible material I could use with my kids and choose the ones that best suit us. We have not (yet) followed a set curriculum or enrolled with any full program. We have supplemented with co-ops and recorded online classes, so far.<br />
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This is the first year I will be using lesson planning and tracking software to help me stay focused. I decided that with next year being high school we needed to practice tracking lessons and grades. Plus with my husband deployed, any way to make my job easier is worth it. I am using a friend's program called My School Year, and I LOVE it! This is an incredibly affordable tool and is full of so many wonderful options. I was always jealous of my MODG friends who print out their students' lesson plans for the week with a few clicks of the mouse. Now I get to do that, too!<br />
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Our primary focus areas for the year are writing and religion, so you will see a heavy emphasis on these subjects. The three boys will attend an enrichment co-op twice a month at a nearby parish to make friends and enjoy a laid-back classroom setting. My daughter will be taking one class at a weekly academic co-op for her to make friends and experience a more formal school environment with high expectations and external deadlines.<br />
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My youngest is three. He is tagging along with my first grader for stories and music, for now. I will probably add some preschool materials for him as the year goes on and I determine his interests and abilities. I have used and love <i>Little Saints</i> and <i>26 Letters from Heaven</i> among other materials. The enrichment co-op class he will attend will study the alphabet, and he already absorbed the song from Starfall. So, I'm not worried about him at all. He's a sponge.<br />
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Next is my six-year-old 1st grader. This one needs to keep busy but fights me when I challenge him, so it will be an interesting year. I just read an article where statistically six-year-olds have the hardest time with behavior and academics when a parent is deployed, which is consistent with what I have seen so far. My goals for him are to shower him with love and praise as much as possible to shatter those statistics and set him up for success! I should note that he mostly stopped any formal schooling while we were prepping the house for sale and moving, so some of his work will be finishing what was planned for his Kindergarten year. The materials he will be using (but definitely not all at once) include:<br />
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<li>Alphabet Path (finishing from last year but in an accelerated/abbreviated format)</li>
<li>Five in a Row</li>
<li>Catholic Schoolhouse Year 1 (older siblings will teach the art & science)</li>
<li>Making Music Praying Twice</li>
<li>Handwriting Without Tears</li>
<li>Math U See</li>
<li>Little Stories for Little Folks Phonics Program</li>
<li>Chats with God's Little Ones</li>
<li>Upward Sports (soccer fall and spring)</li>
<li>Lots of Great Read Alouds</li>
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My 6th grader is now 11 and has become quite capable with his schoolwork. I am so excited to see him excel this year! He is definitely my most studious child, and I hope to encourage him to pursue some rabbit trails this year, specifically in his areas of interest. His current lesson plans include:</div>
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<li>Exploring Creation with Astronomy (minus the whole Young Earth bit)</li>
<li>American History: Civil War to Present (literature-based from a variety of sources)</li>
<li>Math U See</li>
<li>Spelling Wisdom</li>
<li>Writing & Rhetoric</li>
<li>Teach Catholic Schoolhouse Science/Participate in the Art</li>
<li>Homeschool Connections Recorded Courses (writing, history, etc.)</li>
<li>Upward Sports (flag football, basketball, and soccer)</li>
<li>Lots of Great Literature</li>
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As long as my soon to be fourteen year old 8th grader can get out of bed before 10am, she will be thriving this year! I am very excited about what I have selected for her, and we will be spending some time looking at various high school curricula to determine what will be a good fit for her abilities and interests next year. This will be the first year we/she will participate in a live online class and an academic co-op class, so she will have other teachers besides me. Other than that, her plan looks a lot like the 6th grader's:</div>
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<li>Physical Science (at the co-op, since neither of us are good at science)</li>
<li>World History: Civil War to Present (literature-based from a variety of sources)</li>
<li>Math U See</li>
<li>Spelling Wisdom</li>
<li>Writing & Rhetoric</li>
<li>Teach Catholic Schoolhouse Art</li>
<li>Homeschool Connections Recorded Courses (health, </li>
<li>Landry Academy Live Online Class - Creative Writing</li>
<li>Analytical Grammar</li>
<li>Apologetics</li>
<li>Piano Lessons</li>
<li>Electives: Life Works, Thinking Toolbox, etc.</li>
<li>Lots of Great Literature</li>
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Finally, there's the stuff we are attempting to do all together. Due to planning a week off for house-hunting and another for moving this fall, I am starting our year with a half-term and will not be starting most of these things until our first full term in September. Most will be attached to our Morning Basket time, and we will not be doing all at once:</div>
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<li>The Bible Tells Me So</li>
<li>Friendly Defenders</li>
<li>Year of Mercy activities</li>
<li>Government & Elections unit studies</li>
<li>How to Teach Your Children Shakespeare</li>
<li>Bravewriter activities</li>
<li>Story of the Bible: Old & New Testaments</li>
<li>St. Thomas Aquinas for Everyone</li>
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Disclaimer: Of course, we won't do all of the above. It just never works out that way, does it? But I do love that we have a great plan and had a fantastic first day! My theory is that if I set our sights high, we will soar.</div>
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<b><i>Have you heard of all of these materials? Are there any you would like to know more about? I am happy to answer any questions!</i></b><br />
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We survived! Yesterday was our first day, and despite being unexpectedly rainy (it rains in August in Texas?!?!), I was so pleased with the fun and diligence we enjoyed. Honestly, our first day of school is full of so many traditions that we don't actually get in a full day of academics, but I am okay with that when I see the smiles on my children's faces. Those first day smiles stick in my mind for the many times later in the year when they declare, "I hate school!"<br />
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The past several years, at least four years according to my Facebook memory from today, we have started our home school year on the Feast of the Assumption. It is usually a Holy Day of Obligation and therefore forces me to get us to Mass on the first day of school and gives me the chance to beg Our Blessed Mother to ask the Lord to fill in the gaps where I am inadequate to homeschool my children. Today it was not obligatory for us, but we went anyway. I had to meet some ladies from my daughter's co-op at the Cathedral this afternoon, so we chose Mass there. There is no narthex, and it was raining outside. But I hid at the back near the doors for most of the Mass, trying to keep my two youngest boys from making too much noise, enjoying<a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/08/purgatory-in-narthex.html" target="_blank"> my little purgatory</a>.<br />
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But before Mass, we began our day with a run to the local donut shop for a first or second breakfast, depending on age, as is traditional for us. The kids inhaled their sugar and a few sausage rolls for protein and jammed to the upbeat (but occasionally inappropriate) music playing. Unfortunately for me, the sweet lady who worked there kept giving us free donuts and donut holes as we ate. Sigh.<br />
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When we arrived back home, I gave the children their schultutes, which I lovingly throw together around 1am the night before each first day of school. These cones from the German tradition (on my dad's side) include treats, school supplies, and small toys. It is always fun to shop all summer long for special gifts to tuck inside. For example, my daughter's favorite gift was a huge set of colored Sharpies. My youngest son loved his Melissa and Doug Water Wow book! I did manage to make adorable <a href="http://hoosierhomemade.com/back-to-school-candy-pencils/" target="_blank">Pinterest-worthy candy pencils</a>, but my motivation was to steal my kids' Rolos later (as in after I publish this post!).<br />
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This year I only took a group photo before they dove into their cones, although I typically try to get individual shots. Also in their schultutes were the First Day of School interviews I asked them to complete (<a href="http://www.positivelysplendid.com/2013/05/first-and-final-day-of-school-interviews.html" target="_blank">I used these this year</a>). I interviewed the younger two and asked the older two to fill in their own. A few of my favorite answers:<br />
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<li>When I grow up I want to: play (3-year-old)</li>
<li>My favorite book: Aggie football (3-year-old)</li>
<li>Something I want to do this year: flip upside down (6-year-old)</li>
<li>My favorite thing about myself: playing with [my younger brother] (6-year-old)</li>
<li>When I grow up, I want to: work at an ice cream shop (11-year-old)</li>
<li>Something I really don't like: school (11-year-old)</li>
<li>My favorite book: too many to list (13-year-old)</li>
<li>My favorite thing about myself: I'm irrational (13-year-old)</li>
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Our school day almost always begins with Morning Basket. Today's basket only included prayer and read aloud, because I knew we had to get to Mass at noon. I keep prayers with my kids relatively short, so we prayed one decade of the Chaplet. We are now reading aloud our chosen books both in morning basket and after our evening Rosary decade, because we want to finish more quickly. I keep those readings short, too. There will be more Morning Basket on other days, of course!<br />
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Then each child went through their new schoolbooks with me and heard a bit about how to complete and submit assignments. This year was super simple thanks to the <a href="https://www.myschoolyear.com/" target="_blank">My School Year </a>reports I had waiting in their crates. The oldest two were eager to get started and dove right in despite some grimaces, and I pulled out some stories to read with the younger two.<br />
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We had a pleasant surprise on our way home from Mass when I picked up the mail and discovered that one of the stories my husband had read and recorded a few weeks ago at the USO where he is stationed as a part of the United Through Reading Military Program had arrived. So, Dad read <i>There's a Wocket in My Pocket! </i>by Dr. Seuss to everyone via DVD as an afternoon read aloud.<br />
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That last photo in the collage above could be a summary of our first day today, full of fun and grace and kid chaos. Taking inspiration from a dear friend, I decided to buy a small chalkboard and attempt to post a new inspirational quote each week. Not knowing we would enjoy a Seuss story this afternoon, late last night I wrote:<br />
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<b><i>If you are a homeschooler, when do you start this year and what are your first day traditions?</i></b><br />
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Today I managed, via some excellent peer pressure, to get to daily Mass with my four children. As we arrived barely on time for the 9am Mass, I could see something was different. The church was quite crowded with professionally-dressed, broadly smiling women, and it did not seem anyone was at all ready to begin Mass on time. Then I remembered and leaned over to whisper to my daughter, "Didn't they say something last Sunday about the Mass time being different today due to the teachers' Mass?" She nodded, and it all came back to me: Mass at 9:30, back to school Mass for teachers of the diocese, the bishop. Yikes!</div>
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Me: But I have to keep these kids happy for 30 more minutes before Mass and then they have to sit still and be quiet for what will be a longer-than-usual, barely any kids here daily Mass.</div>
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Needless to say, after a short walk to discover the line for the ladies' room was at least twenty teachers long, we stayed for Mass, and shortly after the sign of the cross, I had to take my (loudly-spitting) three-year-old to the narthex, towing the (plugging-his-ears-from-the-loud-organ) six-year-old along. And we didn't get to go back due to what might have been more spitting, some brotherly kicking, and general flopping about from both boys. I was disappointed and eventually joined by five other parents with wiggly kids, possibly the only other adults who brought children.</div>
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I kept reminding myself that the grace was there and that it was a special grace to be at a Mass said by a bishop, but I was feeling kind of sad. I wanted to be able to at least see the altar! I gave thanks my two older children were mature enough to stay in the church and fully experience the liturgy. Between the distractions of the boys not able to sit still (since they couldn't see anything either) and the frustration at my expectations for a relatively quick and quiet daily Mass being crushed, I was grumbling inside.</div>
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But as I sank down on my knees near the pew against the narthex wall to pray during the consecration, I glanced through the floor to ceiling, wall to wall windows separating the narthex from the nave. I was separated from God by this wall. I could not quite see Him, but I knew He was truly present in the Eucharist just a few feet away, but at the moment, unattainable.</div>
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And I recalled that someone once shared with me that it is possible the most intense pain in purgatory is caused by knowing you are so close to going to Heaven, to be in God's almighty presence, but not able to get there just yet.</div>
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For a few minutes, I gave thanks that I was living that purgatory there (with wiggly boys climbing all over me and battling for lap space), because with the suffering of purgatory comes the guarantee of eternal life with God. I remembered that there would be crazy-wonderful grace later in addition to the grace of the moment.</div>
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Mamas, we have all been there. Our bodies often deflate as we make that seemingly long walk to the narthex, cry room, or outside with a wiggly, loud, or crying child. The next time it happens to you, look at that wall, window, or door separating you from the rest of the congregation and give thanks. God is there, just a bit out of reach, and someday we will be closer to Him than we can even imagine!</div>
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If you want to start a moms' group but your group wants something a little meatier than <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/08/the-easiest-moms-group-youll-ever-lead.html" target="_blank">my simple suggestions from a few days ago</a>, I thought I would list my ten favorite books to discuss with fellow Catholic mothers. The first two are specifically homeschooling titles, and the last two are fairly secular, but all are fantastic!<br />
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1. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Teaching-Rest-Homeschoolers-Guide-Unshakable/dp/1600512879" target="_blank"><i>Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler's Guide to Unshakeable Peace</i> by Sarah Mackenzie</a> --- Those who know me personally know that I share this book every chance I get. There is so much to ponder in this slim volume. It is like slipping into a warm bath and letting the wise words soak into your skin. This book could be discussed in 3-4 sittings or split into a dozen. And, there's a companion journal with reflection questions already written! (not specifically Catholic)<br />
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2. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Seasons-Mothers-Heart-Sally-Clarkson/dp/1932012966/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1470197984&sr=1-1&keywords=seasons+of+a+mothers+heart" target="_blank"><i>Seasons of a Mother's Heart: Heart to Heart Encouragement for Homeschool Moms</i> by Sally Clarkson</a> --- With a gentle, motherly tone, this author helps us reflect on the seasons of mothering and homeschooling we all face by sharing intimate details of her joys and struggles as a homeschooling mom. This is another book I reread periodically to refocus my goals to be in line with God's goals for my vocation and provides a wonderful discussion starter for all homeschooling mothers, regardless of which season each currently enjoys. (not Catholic)<br />
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3. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mission-Motherhood-Touching-Childs-Eternity/dp/1578565812/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1470198302&sr=1-1&keywords=mission+of+motherhood" target="_blank"><i>The Mission of Motherhood: Touching Your Child's Heart for Eternity</i> by Sally Clarkson</a> --- This book focuses on the relationship each mother has with her child and the ways we are called to form their hearts for Christ. Conversations about our relationships with our God, our children, our home, and eternity cover all aspects of motherhood in inspiring and specific ways, making this title a fantastic reflection for all mothers. (not Catholic)<br />
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4. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Chosen-Cherished-Biblical-Wisdom-Marriage/dp/086716848X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1470198526&sr=1-1" target="_blank">Kimberly Hahn's Life-Nurturing Love series on Proverbs 31</a> --- Now a series of four titles, these guides to the historical and spiritual meaning of becoming a Proverbs 31 woman are beautiful. Step by step they take readers through the Scripture and expound on how wives and mothers are called to serve God and our families. Reading these books inspires moms to recognize our unique role in the world and what our vocation asks of us in the modern world.<br />
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5. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Scott-Hahn/e/B001H6MRHU/ref=sr_tc_2_0?qid=1470198595&sr=1-2-ent" target="_blank">Any Scott Hahn book</a> --- I especially like <i>First Comes Love </i>and <i>Hail Holy Queen </i>for moms' group discussions, but many others would be suitable. The key about these books in groups is to take them slowly and pause frequently to discuss and ponder aloud the material. And while discussions about our beliefs as Catholics are important, be sure to talk about how to connect the teachings to our daily lives as mothers.<br />
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6. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Holiness-Housewives-Other-Working-Women/dp/0918477476/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1470198742&sr=1-1&keywords=holiness+for+housewives" target="_blank"><i>Holiness for Housewives and Other Working Women</i> by Hubert van Zeller </a>--- Another short read, this one is full of depth. Reading a short passage can provide incredible discussions about how to carry on the repetitive work of running a household and allowing that work to be our sanctification rather than a stumbling block to our holiness.<br />
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7. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mothers-Rule-Life-Bring-Order/dp/1928832415/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470239223&sr=8-1&keywords=mother%27s+rule+of+life" target="_blank"><i>A Mother's Rule of Life: How to Bring Order to Your Home and Peace to Your Soul </i>by Holly Pierlot</a> --- I actually think this book is best read when you can discuss it with other mothers. The ideas in this book are incredibly practical, but because of my type A personality, I found them too idealistic and enjoyed bouncing ideas off other mothers to be sure my plans are realistic for my family's season of life. But the spiritual guidance in this is invaluable to making sure that, as in the above title, our daily life is a path to Christ.<br />
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8. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Womans-Guide-Catechism-Catholic-Church/dp/1569550042/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470239471&sr=8-1&keywords=women%27s+guide+to+catechism" target="_blank"><i>The Woman's Guide to the Catechism of the Catholic Church</i> by Susan Muta and Fr. Van Kaam</a> --- Again, this is one best read and discussed with others. Each chapter even includes discussion questions, and you can bring along a Catechism to look up various points. This is a special way to walk through the new Catechism focusing on areas of special interest to family life.<br />
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9. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Habits-Highly-Effective-Families/dp/0307440850/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470239828&sr=8-1&keywords=7+habits+families" target="_blank"><i>The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families: Building a Beautiful Family Culture in a Turbulent World</i> by Stephen Covey</a> --- There is a lot to cover with this book! If you are familiar with Covey's seven habits, you will especially enjoy how he applies them to family life, providing testimonials and practical steps to ensure that your family's relationships are being continually strengthened. We could never read an entire chapter in one meeting, but applying his principles to the domestic church was even more inspiring to me than applying them to my personal life.<br />
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10. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Proper-Care-Feeding-Husbands/dp/0060520620/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470239791&sr=8-1&keywords=proper+care+and+feeding" target="_blank"><i>The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands </i>by Dr. Laura Schlessinger</a> --- I know you are laughing at me for putting this title here, but if your group can get past the drama (and sin) in the stories Dr. Laura tells to make her points, this book provided some of the best discussions I have had in a moms' group! There is so much practical advice here and fodder for wonderful conversations about how we serve our husbands. Just be sure you set some ground rules before beginning, like no husband-bashing and make sure your husband is comfortable with what you share. I found our discussions centered on the positive ways we enrich our marriages and sharing success stories about what has worked in our relationships.<br />
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Other suggestions I think would be fantastic by Catholic authors, but I have not personally tried in a group setting:<br />
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<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Little-Oratory-Beginners-Guide-Praying/dp/1622821769/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470240035&sr=8-1&keywords=the+little+oratory" target="_blank"><i>The Little Oratory: A Beginner's Guide to Praying in the Home</i> by Leila Lawler & David Clayton</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Divine-Mercy-Moms-Sharing-Faustina/dp/159471665X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470240078&sr=8-1&keywords=divine+mercy+for+moms" target="_blank"><i>Divine Mercy for Moms: Sharing the Lessons of St. Faustina</i> by Michele Faehnle & Emily Jaminet</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Book-Saints-Catholic-Moms-Companions/dp/1594712735/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470240187&sr=8-1&keywords=book+of+saints+catholic+moms" target="_blank"><i>A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms: 52 Companions for Your Heart, Mind, Body, and Soul</i> by Lisa Hendey</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hidden-Power-Kindness-Practical-Transform/dp/1928832008/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470240231&sr=8-1&keywords=hidden+power+of+kindness" target="_blank"><i>The Hidden Power of Kindness: A Practical Guide for Those Who Dare to Transform the World One Deed at a Time </i>by Fr. Lovasik</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.chcweb.com/catalog/ByGradeLevel/SeventhGrade/GrowingintheVirtuesofJesusTheMarianistMethodofVirtue/product_info.html" target="_blank"><i>Growing in the Virtues of Jesus: The Marianist Method of Virtues for Use in Groups</i> by Fr. Hanenewerth</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Marthas-Catholic-Guide-Busy/dp/1592767923/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1470240398&sr=8-1&keywords=catholic+martha" target="_blank"><i>Smart Martha's Catholic Guide for Busy Moms </i>by Tami Kiser</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Imitating-Mary-Marian-Virtues-Catholicmom-Com/dp/1594713642/ref=sr_1_24?ie=UTF8&qid=1470240461&sr=8-24&keywords=catholic+mom" target="_blank"><i>Imitating Mary: Ten Marian Virtues for the Modern Mom </i>by Marge Fenelon</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Domestic-Church-Study-Catholic-Mothers/dp/1616361336/ref=sr_1_20?ie=UTF8&qid=1470240585&sr=8-20&keywords=catholic+mother" target="_blank"><i>The Domestic Church Room by Room: A Study Guide for Catholic Mothers </i>by Donna Marie Cooper O'Boyle</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Grace-Yes-Virtues-Generous-Living/dp/159471472X?ie=UTF8&redirect=true&tag=catholicmom" target="_blank"><i>The Grace of Yes: Eight Virtues for Generous Living </i>by Lisa Hendey</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Random-Moments-Grace-Experiencing-Adventures/dp/0829438408?ie=UTF8&redirect=true&tag=catholicmom" target="_blank"><i>Random Moments of Grace: Experiencing God in the Adventures of Motherhood </i>by Ginny Moyer</a></li>
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Our vocation of motherhood is a busy one. <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/i-dont-have-blank-to-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">You want to socialize with other moms</a>, but you barely have five minutes a day to give away to pursuits outside of your home. When you get those moms together<a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/start-moms-group-3-easy-steps.html" target="_blank"> for your first gathering</a>, here are a few things that have worked for the groups I have led that require minimal effort and preparation.<br />
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When I was a new mother, the moms' group I joined at that time, would encourage the mothers in the group to take turns bringing various articles or excerpts from books to share with the group. Each mom could sign up to lead one of the gatherings, and she would make copies of the articles/excerpts she wanted to share, usually writing 3-5 discussion questions to go along with the material. At meetings, we read out loud, just going around in the circle, each reading a paragraph or a few. Then we discussed the questions. It was fairly simple, and the leader wasn't responsible for coming up with new material each week. I also felt it was a wonderful opportunity to explore a variety of topics, because each mom wanted to share something near and dear to her heart, often material I would not have read on my own and sometimes ideas with which I disagreed but still found fascinating to hear.<br />
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Another option that requires even less preparation is to simply reflect on the Sunday Gospel(s) for the upcoming week(s). The above group was founded with this practice and thrived on it. Everyone would bring a Bible, and the leader would look up the passages to be discussed. They read the Scripture aloud and paused to discuss in between each passage their thoughts and how to apply it to our lives as mothers. Sometimes the leader prepared questions or had a Bible study resource as supplement to the Gospels but not always.<br />
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If that still sounds like too much effort or might not fit the vibe of your particular group, consider gathering simply to pray a Rosary and then just chat. In a smaller group, opening up the discussion to any topic would work. In a larger group, you might have moms jot down a conversation starter on a note card as they walk in the door and pull those out after the Rosary to keep things flowing. Since <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/why-you-should-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">one of the main purposes of gathering with like-minded women</a> is to fulfill Matthew 18:20, and Our Lady is the perfect role model for mothers, praying the mysteries together can be extraordinarily fruitful.<br />
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Maybe your group needs to get to know one another in a more relaxed atmosphere over wine and margaritas! Moms' Nights Out are a fantastic way to either begin a moms' group or supplement a planned discussion group. Every time I have planned a Moms' Night Out, women come, and even when it's only one or two other women, we rejoice in one another and are refreshed by the night out. You can meet at a restaurant or plan a fun activity like painting or bowling. I guarantee you will have interest, and the Holy Spirit will guide your fellowship to provide each attendee with the graces they need if you allow Him.<br />
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Too tough to get together without kids? Several of the above options could certainly be done with children either in the room with you or in the next room. Put on a Catholic video during the Rosary to keep them quiet in the next room or hire some teens to help babysit while you have an uninterrupted discussion. But if you don't think those options work for your fellow moms, just meet at a park. Choose a time of day when the weather is best and get together with moms and kids! We can be nourished immensely by one another's company whether the setting be structured or informal. The point is that we need to get together.<br />
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I hope you can see that once you get women together, it is not that difficult to keep going if you choose a format that works for most moms. There are other options, like book studies and Bible studies that I will review soon, but if you are looking for simple, these ideas will get the job done!<br />
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<b><i>Which of the above ideas most appeals to you and why?</i></b><br />
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You agree <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/why-you-should-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">moms' groups are important</a>. You might even agree that <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/i-dont-have-blank-to-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">YOU need to be the one to get one started</a> in your area. But you are skeptical on the amount of work involved, amiright? After all, we are all busy mamas with way too much on our plate to add one more thing!<br />
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I have found that getting a group started is the easiest part! And I believe that if the Holy Spirit is allowed to lead the group, keeping it going can be easy, too. Here is your homework assignment, if you feel called to lead your own group.<br />
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1. Choose a location.<br />
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2. Choose a date and time.<br />
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3. Invite women.<br />
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Yes, it is that simple. Do not overthink the location or date and time. Just pick something that works for you. After that initial gathering, you can change up both, because you will get plenty of feedback from mamas who want to come.<br />
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You do not have to plan a book study or schedule topics. You do not have to determine the format of your group or the rules or finances, if applicable. There will be plenty of time to do that after you have some invested women who will likely be willing to help make those decisions.<br />
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If you want some ideas on what locations, dates and times, and types of women have worked for the groups I have led in the past, I will share those soon. But your group is unique, and what worked for us might not work for you. So do not be afraid to take that leap of faith and send an email now to set up your first gathering. Say a prayer, click send, and let the Holy Spirit lead the rest!<br />
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<b><i>Commit now to planning at least one gathering of moms and share your chosen location below!</i></b><br />
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Excuses! I know you have them! You do not have time to do this. You do not know how to do this. You are not the right person to do this. A few days ago, I tried to convince you <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/why-you-should-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">how important moms' groups are</a>, especially <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/catholic-homeschooling-mothers.html" target="_blank">for homeschooling moms</a>. But if you need more convincing that YOU should be the one to get the ball rolling, listen carefully, and come back tomorrow for the 3 easy steps to make it happen!<br />
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1. <b>Somebody has to do it</b>. Really. We can all agree that moms need to get together and that we need each other, but unless we make the time and give the little bit of effort needed, it simply will not happen. We all have too much on our schedules for gatherings to happen magically or spontaneously. If we all act as if it is someone else's job, those moms who always do the leading will get burned out or it just won't happen.<br />
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2. <b>It is an act of service to start a group</b>. Many of us wish we could volunteer at our churches or soup kitchens and food pantries, but our primary vocation of mothers of small children often does not allow us the flexibility to do that. Being the one to pull moms together is a way for you to serve your neighbor and demonstrate to your children that it is important to always be a giver, not only a taker. (They do not see your service to them in the same way, although it IS service, of course!)<br />
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3. <b>You will benefit personally</b>. I always maintain that I host moms' groups, because I am selfish. When I am able to set the time, date, location, and format, I can choose what I know will benefit me rather than try to fit into someone else's plan. If there is a group near you that works for your family, be a supporter, but if not, even if there is a group right next door that does not fit your needs, start your own! My husband is grateful I lead these gatherings, because he sees a happier me after each one!<br />
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4. <b>Starting a group is easier than you think</b>. It does not have to be some formal, pre-set group. Just start getting moms together (I will tell you how tomorrow) and do not stop. A one time gathering is great, but for everyone to benefit the most, building relationship and community, you need to keep meeting. But all it takes is three things to start. It is not rocket science!<br />
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You, yes YOU, really need to prayerfully consider inviting some moms to meet. Be sure you have your husband's support and go for it! I bet you will find that as soon as you start, you will have more than enough support and additional help to keep it going.<br />
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<b><i>What's your excuse for not attending and/or starting a moms' group in your area?</i></b><br />
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I shared recently <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/what-will-we-do-without-you.html" target="_blank">how important community is to me</a> and <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/why-you-should-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">why I think moms' groups are just about the best thing since sliced bread</a>! But, I feel the need to speak directly to my colleagues for a few moments. Catholic homeschooling mothers are the women I consider to be my soul sisters. We are choosing not just "the road less traveled by" but "the road <i>[least] </i>traveled by" (based on pure statistics).<br />
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And that is why we need to get ourselves together and talk. We can meet for coffee or margaritas, in a home or at a park, with or without kids, but I firmly believe it needs to be a priority for us. The simple act of getting together will benefit our family, our children, and our personal growth every single time. I guarantee it!<br />
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This "road <i>[least]</i> traveled by" is not only counter-cultural, like many Catholic families who strive to live authentically the vision of the domestic church, but it is also a choice to turn away from the model of education embraced by most first world countries. While being Catholic with a strong faith is often isolating, homeschooling can stop a casual conversation or end a friendship in a flash. A parent is usually immediately labeled as odd (or worse things) as soon as we admit we homeschool. (I admit we <i>are </i>odd, of course, but I would prefer people get to know me before assuming that.)<br />
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We have undertaken this monumental work of not only raising saints but also raising lifelong learners. Our choice to educate our children at home and not hand that responsibility to "professionals" is a heavy weight on our shoulders. When we get together, our conversation is inevitably going to turn to curriculum or lesson planning, as it should, because these are significant aspects of our daily lives.<br />
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As we connect with other Catholic homeschooling families, we create communities of learners and have opportunities to help one another through co-ops, tutoring, loaning materials, bringing meals, swapping babysitting, sharing advice, and more. The bonds that we form over math test woes and catechism lessons are just different than those with our friends from our family, church, or community who do not homeschool. In my experience, these Catholic homeschooling relationships are the friendships that go deep through thick and thin, because we simply understand each other.<br />
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The reality is when you are home with your children all day and are trying to teach them spelling, discipline has to look differently. The cute Pinterest ideas have a place but most likely not before reading lessons and handwriting. Even mundane things like cleaning and cooking are different in a homeschooling family, and so we need to talk about these things with one another.<br />
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And as I said <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/07/why-you-should-start-moms-group.html" target="_blank">about all moms</a>, we need to pray together. Lifting one another up in prayer is the single most important thing we can do to help each other homeschool successfully, according to God's plan for our families. Honestly, this is the one act that slips my mind the most. I am so excited to be with my people that I forget to suggest, or sometimes am embarrassed to ask, that we pray together (even at a park day or moms' night out)!<br />
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So, please help me make up for that and stop the one whose goal is to distract us from God. Get together with other Catholic homeschooling mothers. We will talk practical ideas next. Then when you get together, pray together. I will do the same, and we will all be better for it.<br />
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<b><i>How often do you get to visit with other Catholic homeschooling moms? What is your favorite topic to discuss?</i></b><br />
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Yes, you. The one reading this saying you don't have enough time or space or skill. None of that matters. If you don't attend some sort of group for mothers to connect with one another IN PERSON, you need to just do it.<br />
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Why? I am so glad you asked. I have been leading various moms' groups on and off for over ten years in three different states, and nothing has been more encouraging and inspiring to me as a mother than sitting and sharing with other mothers who are in the trenches with me! Let me try to convince you why it should be you, and soon I will give you the practical how-to.<br />
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1. Catholic mothers, whether they work outside the home or not,<b> are especially vulnerable to loneliness and isolation.</b> Our neighbors' and family members' lives are often so far afield from our daily concerns that it can be difficult to even hold a conversation sometimes. We are changing diapers and teaching our kids how to make the sign of the cross, and to us, those are the most important parts of our days worthy of discussion, not the show on television or the latest neighborhood gossip. When we find our people, those striving for Heaven and trying to follow a similar vocation path, we realize we are not alone and that makes facing opposition just a little bit easier.<br />
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2. Mothering is a hard and never-ending job. The work is never done. There is always another meal to make and another load of laundry to run, until our children grow up and move away. <b>It is crucial that we find ways to stop and refresh our weary spirits.</b> Joining together with other moms for prayer, fellowship, study, and/or fun can be that pause in our repetitive days that allows us to recenter and remember the joy in all the drudgery!<br />
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3. Memes and viral videos abound on the internet about the Mommy Wars. We are constantly wondering if we are doing it right, whether that be cooking or disciplining or whatever. There is some truth to the African adage when spoken simply, "It takes a village to raise a child." <b>We need each other </b>and only recently in history have most mothers not had their mothers and/or mothers-in-law within walking distance to provide encouragement and practical support. Moms' groups foster unity despite our differences, just as the Body of Christ has many parts but is united in Christ Jesus.<br />
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4. Similarly, <b>we need various points of view</b> to properly reflect on our parenting and choose the paths best for our individual families. And reading those points of view on the internet only get us so far. Those opinions are not subject to our questions and personal circumstances like an in-person conversation might be. Most importantly, sometimes we need friends and even acquaintances with the same understanding of family life to challenge us and point out some flaw in our lives that we may not have eyes to see!<br />
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5. Most importantly, "<b>For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them.</b>" Matthew 18:20. We need Jesus. Therefore, we need to gather with one another as often as possible with like-minded women to pray and offer our thanksgiving and petition to the Lord, Who then will nourish our souls and draw us ever closer to Him. That is how we survive and thrive as busy moms on our way to Heaven.<br />
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There are many more reasons why to participate in or begin your own moms' group, but to me, these are the most significant. This topic is so dear to my heart that I will be writing more about what types of groups you might start, ideas to get things going, and troubleshooting common problems.<br />
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<b><i>Are you a part of a moms' group? How has it benefited you?</i></b><br />
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I like answering questions. Ask me a question, and 98% of the time, I will have an answer. I have no problem sharing my opinions or experiences when asked. In fact, like many, I enjoy speaking my mind. So you have been warned!<br />
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Last summer I responded here to <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-dont-know-how-you-do-it.html" target="_blank">How Do You Do It All?</a> and more recently answered <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/06/how-are-you-doing.html'" target="_blank">How Are You Doing?</a> But the question I was asked by friends before moving across Texas about a month ago that has been on my heart lately is <u>What Will We Do Without You?</u><br />
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At the time, I mostly shrugged off the question. It was a time of difficult goodbyes, and I knew people meant well. Inside, I honestly was bothered by the repetition of this question, though, and at one point I did try to articulate why. Since I am sure I did not communicate well in that moment, I thought I would revisit my answer.<br />
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For those of you that know me IRL, yes, I realize you probably asked that rhetorical question merely to express your appreciation for all of my contributions to our community. And I thank you for your kindnesses and friendship, but I do have a challenge for you. For those of you who do not know me, as you read the following response, I invite you to think about that homeschooling mom who serves your community. I have met these women and heard about these women, and I know some of them probably feel just like me.<br />
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When I feel called to serve outside of my family, my passion is to provide support for, connect, and encourage Catholic homeschooling moms. So, my answer to What Will We Do Without You? is to encourage (or beg?) you to provide support for, connect, and encourage other Catholic homeschooling moms.<br />
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It can be very simple to reach out to new homeschooling mothers. If you have been homeschooling at least one year, being present to another mom, in my experience, can mean the difference between peace and anxiety over her daily choices. Listen to her. Share your experiences, the good and the bad. Loan her books and answer her questions. Give her a call, send her a text, or invite her for tea!<br />
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If you are in a season of life where you are able to go a step further, I challenge you to get homeschooling moms together. This can be easier than it sounds and building personal relationships is crucially important to our Christian walk. A park day, a moms' night out, coffee, breakfast, whatever! It doesn't have to be a large event, strategically planned, or a long-term commitment. Just pick a date, time, and location and invite a few other moms, or your whole homeschool email group! (If you want a more formal event to nourish mamas, I highly recommend putting together a <a href="https://www.facebook.com/catholicgracedays/?fref=ts" target="_blank">Grace Day!</a>)<br />
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And if you feel like access to support and encouragement is as key to a homeschool family's success as I do, then volunteer as a leader for your local homeschool group, conference, or co-op. None of us have the time, but all those wonderful gatherings do not happen without time and talent. Many hands make light work. Etc. Etc. Please help! It might just be your turn to say yes.<br />
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Please remember one more thing about those mamas who seem essential to the cohesiveness and success of your homeschool group and community. They may do a lot and serve on boards or committees, and you have no idea how they do it all (<a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-dont-know-how-you-do-it.html" target="_blank">most of us don't</a>). But if they are anything like me, they do what they do because they need support and encouragement, too. Just like you, they regularly feel the weight of this homeschooling journey and are bolstered by their connections with you!<br />
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So, what can you do to reach out and fill the void this year? How can you serve your homeschooling community in some small or big way?<br />
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Those who know me personally know how much I love order and
organization. Thus, I simply love homeschool curriculum planning season. And
yet, this year, I have had <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/03/a-new-place.html" target="_blank">more urgent responsibilities</a> to address first. I
feel as if the season is almost over, and I am just about to begin.<br />
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These are the things I cannot wait to do next…<o:p></o:p></div>
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the good stuff.</b> --- I always try to go back and read something to re-center
my homeschooling compass before I begin planning. It’s premature to start
looking at curriculum until I remember things like <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2016/02/why-do-you-homeschool.html" target="_blank">why I homeschool</a>, my beliefs
about homeschooling, and encouraging words from more seasoned homeschoolers. My
all-time favorites are: Sarah Mackenzie’s <i><a href="http://amzn.to/29MVG1A" target="_blank">Teaching from Rest</a>: A Homeschooler's Guide to Unshakeable Peace</i>, <i><a href="http://amzn.to/29lz0ag" target="_blank">Real Learning</a>: Education in the Heart of the Home</i> by
Elizabeth Foss, <i><a href="http://amzn.to/29lyPM7" target="_blank">Seasons of a Mother’s Heart</a></i> by Sally Clarkson, and Susan Schaeffer Macaulay's <i><a href="http://amzn.to/29sIkde" target="_blank">For the Children's Sake</a>: Foundations of Education for Home and School</i>.<o:p></o:p></div>
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the pretty things</b>. --- I love using Pam Barnhill’s <i><a href="http://edsnapshots.com/plan-year-homeschool-planning-purpose-peace-2/" target="_blank">Plan Your Year</a>: Homeschool Planning for Purpose and Peace</i> guide and forms. They’re the perfect mix of
beautiful and orderly. And I recently discovered <a href="http://myschoolyear.com/">MySchoolYear.com</a> which is an
online planning and tracking system, so I look forward to using this incredible
resources this year to prepare for my high school record keeping needs. I also
like the free forms at the <a href="http://homeschoolconnectionsonline.com/homeschool-forms" target="_blank">Homeschool Connections resource page</a>.<o:p></o:p></div>
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about each of my kids individually.</b> --- I find that I rarely take the time
to consider each child’s gifts and challenges. Using a tool such as my <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/2012/05/survey-explained.html" target="_blank">Prayerfully Reflecting on Last Year</a> helps force me to remember that each of my children is
a unique person of dignity created in the image and likeness of God. It’s too
easy to repeat my plans for each child, but it’s essential that I assess
whether I need to tweak existing plans for the educational needs of the next child
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with myself.</b> --- I can read all the good stuff, but I need to reflect on
how to implement those ideals within the limitations of our family. I can print
a ton of great forms, but unless those forms have a realistic amount of white
space and flexibility, I know I will fail. And, I can think about the needs of
each child, but sometimes the needs of one child trump the needs of another for
a season. Most importantly, I am human and have my own weaknesses. If I do not set
boundaries for my own needs, we will not get through one week of school without
a complete toddler meltdown…from me.<o:p></o:p></div>
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booklists.</b> --- I get giddy when I think about all. the. books! When I did a
cursory look of my homeschooling materials before I packed them into boxes for
our move, I was dismayed to see that I have most of the books I will need for
next school year. I will have to work very hard to plan to use the materials I
know work for us instead of buying all. the. new. books! But there will still
be some consumables to buy and things for the first grader that I didn’t save
from the older children, and I will have to make a list of library books to put
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--- There’s nothing better for my salvation than a situation where it is inexcusable
to pray, and planning a year of education for my four children demands prayer.
So I will be taking hard stops at each planning step to check in with God. It’s
difficult for me to sit down for a few moments, but I look forward to the
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Then, I will <a href="http://heartofamother.blogspot.com/search/label/planning" target="_blank">Prayerfully Plan for Next Year.</a> If you haven’t
yet done that for your family, please let me know, so I feel like I’m not behind the curve as
much? Thanks! Here we go!<o:p></o:p></div>
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